How to talk across differences
Finding Common Ground in Conversation
1. Discover common ground and truthful shared values.
2. Disrupt disinformation by questioning the motives of the messenger or encouraging source-checking to encourage independent thought.
3. Dream of a better future by reaffirming the truth as an inspiring vision or call to action
Read the full piece (pdf) from Indivisible’s Truth Brigade
With the cultural and political divides common in our communities, many of us struggle with how to talk with friends, family, and anyone who thinks differently. Communication tips:
How to turn the political conversation around - TED talks
Builders - inspiration, tools, and ways to take action to overcome us-vs.-them mindsets and solve tough problems together.
How to Talk to People Who Disagree with You Politically
Focus on the people, not the politics
Build a relationship before talking politics
Don’t take comments personally
Share your own relevant experiences
Give a relatable hypothetical situation
Find common ground
Bond over less polarized issues
Be open to listening and understanding
Ask questions to understand a different viewpoint
Focus on shared beliefs
Stick to the facts and avoid confrontation
Stick to information that can be verified
Back up your opinions with evidence
Limit emotion in discussion
Avoid confrontational language
Be an advocate rather than an opponent
Adapt conversational style to audience
Avoid words that might upset people
Pick your battles
Talk about local politics instead of national politics
Focus on policy instead of party
Avoid hot-button issues
Video and full article at https://mediaengagement.org/research/divided-communities/